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Dear Ms Independent
I would like a for sure way of focusing on
myself, I don't want to be bothered with my boyfriend, I want to concentrate on
me for awhile, nobody but me... No distractions; no interruptions; no contact
with him for 30 days ...How do I tell him to get lost, and let me be for a
while.
Need time for me
Answer
to Need time for me
Since I don’t have very much information, I can
only guess on some of the details.
I would be very honest with him. If he really cares for you, he will understand
and give you your space. Depending on the intensity and duration of the
relationship so far, you may find that taking a short break might be just what
you need to rejuvenate the romance or maybe it will help you both to discover
that you are not right for one another. And of course there are a whole host of
other outcomes in the middle. Nothing in life is guaranteed.
If you feel strong enough that you need to take a 30 day break, then by all
means you should. Your mind, heart and soul are trying to tell you something and
you owe it to yourself to take the time to listen.
If you’re going to take the 30 days to do some soul searching, I would highly
recommend keeping a journal. Start the journal before you start your sabbatical.
Write exactly how you feel and don’t hold back, let it flow, don’t think about
it, just write. Don’t worry about spelling, grammar or content. Write whatever
pops into your head. Write as though no one will ever see it. Continue writing
during your 30 day break and check in every couple of days or when it is
convenient for you. Read the difference in your feelings and thoughts between
the past and present times and how much you have progressed on your goal. This
should be a great gauge for measuring what is going on inside of you.
Let me know how it goes. With your permission, I am sure there are other clients
who would like to know how it worked out for you. And I definitely want to know.
Best of luck to you,
Tami
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