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letter from "Somewhat lost"
Dear Ms Independent
I just came across your web site. Interesting
If I may, I will try to describe my feelings. I am facing my second divorce and
I think I am now coming to grips with it. Feeling lonely and empty, yet trying
to make myself move on. Dealing with low self esteem and doubt of life. I know
all things will happen in Gods time, but its hard to be alone.
When I find an interest in someone it just doesn't seem to be the right time
for me or for them. I feel I just want to close the door and never go out of my
home, although I know that I really don't want that.
Is it OK to call a guy?
Should you wait on them to make the move?
I've came a long way I think, but I seem restless at this time. I have been
alone for many years although I was married. I had to get out because it was so
unfair to me even though I am now alone, other than a handsome little boy that I
love so very much.!!
I don't want to make any more mistakes in my life.
Somewhat lost
Answer to Somewhat lost
Right timing? Or right person? If the best fit for you came along
would it be the right time?
Call a man? I think it depends on how you get their number. If they freely give
it to you and ask you to call, I don't see anything wrong with that. If it
wasn't agreed upon for you to call him, then I wouldn't call him. If he has your
number I would wait for him to call.
Asking a guy out. Well you shouldn't do anything unless you feel comfortable.
If you ask a gentleman out, you run the risk of being turned down. How is that
going to affect your state of mind? You may want to work on your self esteem and
self worth before you attempt dating.
Not asking a gentleman out, you run the risk of waiting for someone to come
along. And what if after waiting you find you aren't interested in him? You
waited for nothing.
Sounds as though you have a handsome boy in your life, I'm assuming it's your
son. I would imagine that he is a great comfort and a joy to be with. Cherish
him while he is young; they grow up so fast, don't they?
You are human and will make more mistakes in your life. I do, we all do.
Unfortunately, none of us are perfect and we can't see into the future. But, the
manner in which you deal with your situations as they come along is going to
make your life easier or more difficult. Attitude is the key.
Remember, you have the ability to change your life and how you see it. You may
not always get what you want, but you can learn to appreciate what you have,
what you can change and what you can accomplish. Fighting life's challenges may
not be easy, but remember your son. He is a good reason to set a positive
example.
Tami
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